Month: May 2019

  • Ninja tips for squeezing THE MOST out of a budget airline flight

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    Ninja tips for squeezing THE MOST out of a budget airline flight I’m not a fan of airlines that nickel and dime you for every little single thing (think: drink, snack, picking your seat, 3″ more legroom, and even your carry on.) Geez. But, you can find some killer deals on many sites. The catch? At those prices, you may have to pack ULTRA light because it’s an extra $40-$50+ each way for a carry-on bag. (The first checked bag is usually cheaper, so if you must bring a lot of stuff, check it instead of carrying it on). Just remember you do get a free “personal item.” So here’s what I’ve done and you can too:

    • First, find flights by being signed up to each airline companies email list and keep an eye on their sales.

    They tend to be frequent and sometimes they have high promo codes.

    • Once you find the flight you want, get it.

    But do NOT sign up for any of their extras. I never choose a seat (& in case you’re wondering- I do this even if I’m traveling with my children. In my experience, flight employees will always keep family seats together. I bring my own snacks and water or just go without. (Okay let’s be serious LOL. It’s me… I ALWAYS have snacks)

    • Use a comfortable backpack

    It should fit all the way under the seat in front of you, vertically or horizontally.

    • Travel-sized everything!

    Bring a comb instead of a brush. A little pill bag with some tooth powder in it instead of a tube of toothpaste. Just a small amount of the necessary toiletries in travel-sized containers, which can either be refilled at the destination or just buy a little bit of stuff as needed. It’s cheaper to buy $5-$10 worth of toiletries, or even a clothing item or two at the destination if you have to, than to pay $100 or more round trip to bring your stuff from home. • Bring lightweight, synthetic (I.e. fast-drying fabrics) clothes that you can easily wash–even in the sink, if necessary–and re-wear. So now, you’ll have maybe 3-5 outfits and plan on doing laundry a few times while traveling.

    • Use packing cubes to help organize and compress clothes.

    Always roll rather than fold (you can fit more in that way). I’ve tried using vacuum bags, but they are too bulky and don’t use up all the luggage space wisely.

    • Wear your bulkiest clothes and layer them if you can.

    I’ve worn regular pants over leggings, a longer shirt over a t-shirt, etc. It’s usually cold on the plane anyway. Also, layering is a good way to go if you’re traveling in the cold months.

    • Try to only bring 1 pair of shoes

    (the ones on my feet) but if you need to have an extra pair for some reason, absolutely wear the bulkier ones on the flight and pack the lightest ones in your bag (as compressed as possible). I found a really comfortable pair of flats that I can pack in my bag for dressier occasions, and wear my favorite running/walking shoes on the plane. Or in the colder months, I’ll wear my dressier boots on the plane and pack a light pair of running shoes for more comfortable walking, or the gym.

    • A jacket with a lot of pockets will be your best friend.

    You can load it with the kinds of things you’d normally have in your purse (which you may ot otherwise have–at least not during the flight–since you’re only allowed one personal item), plus any extra stuff you want to bring that doesn’t fit into your bag.

    • Skip the souvenirs

    (If your return flight is also on a budget airline) Or if you buy something, then something that you brought from home gets thrown out or donated (first choice) to make space. So, if you know you’ll probably want to get a t-shirt, simply pack one of your old t-shirts and just dispose of it to make room for the new one. Same principle applies if you’re going to a conference and know you’ll likely return with some cool swag or a couple of new books or something.

    • If you end up with more going back than what you came with and can’t part with any of it, go to the post office and mail a package to yourself.

    If they’re books, you can send them for pretty cheap via media mail. If they’re clothes, they are usually pretty lightweight. Unless it’s a huge package, it’ll probably be less than $30 which would be your minimum for bringing it back on the plane (checked bag).

    • Only take what you know you will absolutely need and use on the trip.

    No “just in case” items. So this usually means just your clothes, laptop, essential toiletries/meds/vitamins (just the amount you will need for the trip, in pill bags), plus your phone and wallet (pared down to minimum as well), chargers, and a small external battery to recharge my phone on the go. Bring an empty water bottle (any that can be flattened or has a clip to attach to your backpack will do..no need to get fancy here) and a little snack or two for the flight. If there’s enough room you can toss in a magazine for entertainment (many airports in Europe offer a magazines for free, you’ll see them on the wall near your gate) But there’s always the phone if your bag and jacket pockets have getting too full. Go ahead and download the Kindle app for good measure. It’s free and you don’t need a Kindle for it!

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  • How To Raise Grateful Children

    How To Raise Grateful Children:

    It can be so challenging nowadays to teach thankfulness and gratitude in a world full of ‘deservers.’

    I sometimes think especially as parents, it can be tough to admit or even notice when we have a selfish deserving spirit as well.

    What comes to mind immediately for me is my mother. I grew up poor with minimal financial resources in NYC. So as you can imagine, it was easy for us to focus on the things we didn’t have or ‘needed’ instead of focusing on what we already had.   I can vividly remember my mother playing the lotto in *hopes* she may win…Or how we would work so hard to save money for nice ‘things.’ And constantly visualizing the items we could have one day.   Now, as a parent, I see how unhealthy this is for our children.  

    Here are a few ways we can cultivate gratitude in our kid’s lives:

    Teach them how to be thankful

    Not to always have a ‘wanting’ spirit. Gratefulness. Gratitude. I think it can be quite tricky these days to train a child to show appreciation.

      Instructing our children to be specific in their gratefulness can allow them to hone in on what they have received! So, with my oldest, I’ll have her say- Thank you, Daddy, for taking me out for ice cream! Oppose to her prior normal- Thanks, Dad! (after having her cup of gelato)

    Teach and be clear on the differences between wants and needs

    Showing our kids the difference between needs and desires is so important.

      It’ll help them build awareness of the world around them and teach empathy and compassion along the way. Demonstrating our needs first as a priority will help prepare our kids on how to budget and what’s most important overall.

    Teach God’s word

    Since I follow Christ, I think it’s crucial to help my kids read, learn, and interpret the Bible.

      We believe it’s the infallible word of God. And if you’re Jesus girl too, then you know what I mean. Teaching our kids what He says, means so much more than what we could ever say or demand.

    Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)

    “I will give thanks to you, Lord, with all my heart; I will tell of all your wonderful deeds” (Psalms 9:1)

    Teach about poverty

    This one is one of my favorites.

    I firmly believe that everyone should have the experience of serving others in surroundings other than their own.

      Poverty-stricken surroundings, areas lost of hope, etc. Do you know what I mean? ‘Those’ neighborhoods…

    Teach patience…Learn to wait!

    Oh, this is a BIG one!

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      I never realized how much I was hurting our daughter by NOT teaching this…I was ignoring (not purposely) such a crucial area for growth. You see, before we had our second daughter, I never had a pressing reason to make my child “wait.” If she was hungry, bored, tired, frustrated-whatever it was, I tended to her needs immediately, because there honestly wasn’t a reason not too. But, oh, how awful this was! I quickly learned (as my husband pressed on about this) that she wasn’t developed in the ‘waiting patiently’ area (he was right…again! lol)

    Parenting is a learning curve.

      I truly believe as we raise up arrows, we are also cultivating a learning heart within ourselves.   So take heart

    xoxo

    Sheree

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